I’ve been enjoying a lot of quiet time lately, during which I ponder on the vicious cycle of the corporate world and adulthood. We’re always going somewhere, rushing to meet people, clamoring for the corner office and we end up losing sight of yourself.

Someone once said to a friend that always felt she wasn’t beautiful: “you’re too used to your features. Look from the outside in” and I thought it was a profound statement. We get so familiar with the people and things closest to us that we lose sight of their beauty.

In the midst of the hustle and bustle that comes with adulting, I have learnt to take occasional breaks and re-connect with the little kid in me. At the end of the day, nobody will love you any better than you love yourself.

So don’t live a little, live a lot. Wake up in the morning and do something special or different every day. Brew that perfect cup of tea, blend that smoothie up, collect fresh flowers, smile at a total stranger, say thank you and remember to appreciate those in your sphere of contact today.

Outfit Details:

Denim Shacket: Forever 21

Tank Top: River Island

Joggers: River Island

Shoes: Zara





My name is Onyekachi Opara...Kachi for short. An avid lover of God and an Economist who believes in the future of the Nigerian fashion industry. I believe in buying Nigerian and promoting indigenous brands, I believe that someday, there'll be Nigerian fashion retail outlets at every turn with ready to wear pieces that are affordable for the everyday lady and I believe that chocolate cake and candy bars make the world go round.


  • Amaka Emily says:

    Honestly when Dkinboss told me to check your blog for some inspiring contents and ideas i thought he wanted me to just view your sight because i’m trying to build something similar myself. But i must say having gone through your recent posts your my new reference point when it comes to all things blogging and inspirational. Good job so far and i hope to get to where you are now.

    • Kachi says:

      Awww thanks Amaka, you will definitely make progress in blogging as long as the vision stays burning inside you.

  • Demi Akin says:

    Gurl! That vicious cycle is what I dread the most about graduating but like you said, I’ll try and live A LOT each day ^_^
    You look fab as always!

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